Understand, but since you did opt for a FNAEB over DOR’ing, the conversation has changed and I’d offer that’s where you start the next discussion with those DHs you’ve talked with. Topic: if you get a multi transition, how do you navigate it. And I’d also offer if and when you get to your fleet squadron, you have a sit down with both your CO and XO, and discuss your challenges ahead, and how you will work your ass off to earn your place (& high water FITREP). This frank discussion will manage your expectations as well as the agreement you have with the head shed.