@picklesuit and
@nittany03, you both are exactly right.
I went down the FOSx2 path; however, I didn't submit any correspondence saying don't pick me or similar. In fact, I submitted letters to the board with information to get promoted.
To anyone trying to figure out their future or going down the FOSx2 path, keep your options open. Plan for all COAs, in and out of the Navy, and be ready. My wife and I had those options ready, so when the FOSx2 thing came through we had a plan. It helped and made the transition easier.
On another note, if you are leaving the Navy or going down the FOSx2 path, look very hard at joining the Reserves. I did for many reasons, but it is worth it. I just went through a layoff (starting new job next month!), but the reserves have been awesome in the situation. I was able to pick up extra drills and help the unit out allowing me to keep cash flowing in while searching for a new job.
As always, if you think this could be a path you go down, PM myself or others with questions. I think you'll find the community here happy to help.
-Ektar