Thank you all for the replies.
I will inform this group that I have decided to take my SWO selection. All my paperwork was turned in last Thursday and could possibly go to OCS mid-October.
Oddly enough, my wife was a little hesitant at first, but once she researched more about the two jobs, she called me at work Thursday morning and told me to call my recruiter and go with the Navy. Funny how things can change in a week.
A lot of that had to do with her talking to some people she knows serving in various ratings in the Navy right now. We also both got to talk to a SWO fresh off her first sea tour. Her and the recruiter both told my wife to expect the first two years to be horrible, the next two years after that to still be pretty terrible, then after that, it would get better. We would be more familiar with deployments, and get the chance to have some shore tours.
So, we know it will be tough, but we also know it is for a very great cause and it will be as enjoyable as we let it be.
Thanks again everybody! I guess now if anyone has any advice they want to throw out seeing as my decision is made, that would be greatly appreciated. I have read most threads on here such as OCS gouges, what are good ships to be assigned to for your first ship, etc.