Mmm, I think I probably didn't provide the context for the articles I was reading. The particular context were
a slew of articles like these that specifically highlight the achievement of Capt. Bauernschmidt being the first female CVN CO. A fairly common response in the comments sections of these articles (just peruse any of them) is that the articles shouldn't be focusing on gender. I think this line of thinking minimizes the unique challenges somebody in a minority faces rising up to that station that I obviously don't need to detail here.
If I'm muddying up my point too much (Bulleit Rye gets a vote), I guess I'd exaggerate the point with this example: If somebody were physically disabled and managed to work their way into an elite athletic competition, it would be silly for people to respond to congratulants by retorting, "I don't know why everybody's making such a big deal out of this...if they've got the chops, they've got the chops, same as anybody else." Obviously that person has overcome a very observable obstacle to their goal, and to pretend that accomplishment isn't significant minimizes the importance of the achievement.
Of note, this argument doesn't hold much weight to an individual who doesn't believe somebody with a disability faces any more or fewer challenges than any other athlete. I'd say the same about an individual who doesn't believe that, for example, females or other minorities seeking to serve in the Armed Forces have faced (on average) any more challenges than white males. That's a difference in perspective that probably can't be reconciled.
To be clear, I don't think Capt. Bauernschmidt should continually have to wear that tag throughout the remainder of her career. I'd say the same about Vice President Kamala Harris, who we're all abundantly clear by now is the first black/Asian/female VP. The instance of those stations being assumed by those two people at this point in history was rightfully newsworthy and worthy of discussion at the time.