Sorry Aslam if I came of as short with you. Posts don't allow for inflection and I don't fully explain becuase I get tired of typing. I didn't mean to imply a judgement call towards you about your attitude in earlier posts.
I don't intend to be mean or ugly. This topic is suppposed to be about IFS, but indulge me please. For everyone: Take the following however you want, if it doesn't apply to you throw it away. If it does apply, stick in your big bag of knowledge to be used at some later date.
Your commitment is to serve the Navy, US, constitution, etc. Not the other way around. Although it's logical not to expect unforseen sacrifices, it is important to accept them. It's more than deployments. Even on homecycle you'll have work-ups, detachments, training evolutions and various other sundry items which will take you away from where you want to be. I never saw Tom Cruise waiting around for a broken plane, writing evals, wearing khakis on a 24 hour watch, or collecting samples as the Squadron Urinalysis Officer. I'll tell you this...the flying makes up for every bit of it. But realize early on that we are a Naval Officer first and a Naval Aviator second. If I did it all over again; I'd give some serious thought to the Air Force. *soapbox returned to storage*
BTW, I'm not married because I refused to have children while in a position to be away from them for so long. I've seen too many pilots get divorces and too many kids cry at homecoming because they don't recognize daddy. Other people can live life like that...I'm not one of them.
Play nice with others,
K-Ron