I am at OCS right now (commissioning this Friday) and I came in under BDCP and am married. I, along with all of the other married SNA/SNFOs in my class were given the option to have their orders cut for primary early, so we could move our families here. Also, we were given DLA...if you don't know what DLA is, it is important to ask if you are eligible for it anytime you move or switch duty stations. The only catch is that your orders will be to Whiting, and if you don't want that you can roll the dice and choose the per diem route, which would give you a slightly higher than a snowballs' chance in hell of getting out of going to Whiting. Bottom line is that most married, in fact all that I have ever met, have gone to Whiting.