i appreciate all your comments. i would hope the emphasis would be upon the team, rather than the individual, and im glad to hear this is the case. i will just keep training hard until i get there. thanks again.
Stand out by being the guy who is helping your classmates study / drill / learn procedures / memorize gouge when none of the staff are around, that way your classmates will know that you're there to help everyone get through and won't throw you under the bus.
As far as ways to get "good" attention from the staff, if such a thing exists, learn how to yell so loudly that it breaks people's eardrums, drill well, put out for PT and other "games," don't screw up often, and don't freak out when you do screw up.
Like others have said, OCS is largely a pass/fail event. Everyone is the same rank upon graduation.