Figures a hornet guy would have a "spouse" named Fred...:icon_tong
Blame my parents for naming me after my grandma Fredricka. :icon_smil
Figures an E2 guy would make fun of a spouse's name. :boring_12
Figures a hornet guy would have a "spouse" named Fred...:icon_tong
Thought it was a screen name. Surry.
Nose (Pulling foot from mouth, again.)
Granted, I'll never let my wife tell me to "pick P-3s" (as one poor sucker had his girlfriend do and then got dumped...), but I'll always consider her needs in everything I do because, in the end, the Navy is only temporary (yeah, maybe 10 years and maybe 35 or 40 years, but still temporary), but your marriage is FOREVER...
So, anyway, after that long shpeel, I'm going to go see how primary turns out and then just pick whatever the hell I WANT TO FLY! haha...thanks for all the posts...Fred, I especially liked hearing your point of view as the Wife of a pilot, albeit a wife named "FRED"...haha
flybywhipped06 said:but I believe life is about balance and there's no way to be a good officer without being a good husband...
BULLSHIT.
There are MANY fine officers that are single or divorced. And I know many who would be described as a "perfect husband" by their wifes that are less than perfect officers.
Not to mention the guys who make good officers, but just are not cut out for nor desire married life. (Brett327 comes to mind)
Just keep in mind, even though you may consider her needs in everything you do, there will be times you simply can’t do what she needs/wants because it’s the polar opposite of what the Navy needs/demands. Neither of us wanted him to miss the birth of our daughter, not be able to come home when my dad died or when our son was in pediatric ICU, leave me, four kids, and two dogs “stranded” in the path of a super typhoon, but he had to. There will be many, many times the needs of the Navy will supersede the needs of your wife.
BULLSHIT.
There are MANY fine officers that are single or divorced. And I know many who would be described as a "perfect husband" by their wifes that are less than perfect officers.
Not to mention the guys who make good officers, but just are not cut out for nor desire married life. (Brett327 comes to mind)
A bit of a spin off, but along this vein, how many officers of Flag rank are single, and how many single 06’s get major command? My husband’s best friend is single, always has been, and probably always will be. He’s said many, many times; he will never be eligible for major command because he’s not married. His fitreps, performance as squadron CO, technical degree, etc., don’t matter as much as the fact he doesn’t have a ring on his left hand. During our last discussion on this subject he asked me to name one 06 holding a major command who was not married. I came up with one, and even he was married when he screened for nuke power.
(I realize this is in the distance future for most on here)
AGREE completely with you -- fact is; that's ONE of the reasons I got "out" -- at least off active duty -- as my former hippie, born-again, daughter of Satan wife was never going to be an asset to any Naval Officer's career -- she even stated so quite clearly on more than one occasion ....A bit of a spin off, but along this vein, how many officers of Flag rank are single, and how many single 06’s get major command? ...
Ahhhhh ... the innocence. It's nice to see it's still around ....Last time I checked the precepts and the FITREP format -- there is no "married" block that needs to be checked...
Not to mention the guys who make good officers, but just are not cut out for nor desire married life. (Brett327 comes to mind)