Corps of Cadets is not a military organization. Last time I checked, they don't deploy, or even go TAD for that matter, to Iraq, the Arabian Gulf, or anywhere else in the world. Now, if you wish to describe it as a paramilitary organization, that's another thing alltogether. And you're definitely not going to know how things work at all levels in a military organiztion by spending only 4 years in a PARAmilitary organization.
What are these leadership roles that Senior members fill such that they have real responsibility vice the not-so-real responsibility at other institutions?
While I didn't go through OCS, I would gather that there are folks on this board that would disagree that it was "easy" and that they therefore, took the easy way to get their commission. When you get to your first operational tour, no one is going to give a rats ass what college you went to, unless you're the George or it's football season (as has already been said). And if you went to Texas A&M, let's just say you're pretty screwed, cause you're probably gonna get hell....at least on a ship you will.
The point to go to college is not to live a military experience, but to get an academic education.....pure and simple.
As far as College Station and gay bars.....well, that's between you and the bars I guess. All I know is that College Station isn't Gainesville.