Go to the school that you'd want to go to if it didn't have NROTC. The training you'll have in the military will prepare you to the required standards. If you're interested in a particular major, go to the school that has the best program in that major. Don't get trapped in a contest over who says, "ooh-rah" loudest.
As far as being immersed in the military, your NROTC drills, PT, and classes serve that purpose. The rest is just college kids playing dress-up. I was not a military school or Corps guy, but I was the battalion commander in my NROTC unit, so it's not as if I was a slacker. Being BC and .50 might get me a cup of coffee, as will being in a military college environment.
ROTC at a normal school is self-service: what you put in determines what you get out. If you have self-discipline you won't miss any military education that you need. If you need more of a cafeteria-style experience, maybe you need the structure of a Corps. Before I get flamed, I'm not saying that Corps-types lack discipline. I'm just saying that as long as you're willing to take initiative, you won't be behind militarily at a normal school, and you'll still have a "college" experience.
As far as being immersed in the military, your NROTC drills, PT, and classes serve that purpose. The rest is just college kids playing dress-up. I was not a military school or Corps guy, but I was the battalion commander in my NROTC unit, so it's not as if I was a slacker. Being BC and .50 might get me a cup of coffee, as will being in a military college environment.
ROTC at a normal school is self-service: what you put in determines what you get out. If you have self-discipline you won't miss any military education that you need. If you need more of a cafeteria-style experience, maybe you need the structure of a Corps. Before I get flamed, I'm not saying that Corps-types lack discipline. I'm just saying that as long as you're willing to take initiative, you won't be behind militarily at a normal school, and you'll still have a "college" experience.