99% of the former POWs are inspiring, great officers deserving our respect and gratitude. But there is always that 1%.
My ex-wife was a Navy officer and one day forced me to go to a Women in the Military luncheon with her at the NAS Jax O'Club. The guest speaker was Major Ronda Cornum, an Army Doctor who was a POW during Desert Storm. She wrote a book about her experience that I had read. In the book she talked about how she liked to go on the medivac / SAR flights but had been repeatedly ordered not to because it was the job of the Medics, not the Flight Surgeons. So she went anyway, got shot down and captured. She also talked about the young soldier who was either seriously wounded or died (I forget which, this was 1994) trying to protect her from the Iraqis.
I had heard many POW talks in the past and to a one, the former POWs were humble about their experience and were trying to pass on good info. Major Cornum's talk was about what a hero she was - going on the mission against orders and being captured.
So I got to talk to my CO that afternoon and the Commodore the next day. It seems the women officers and the good Major were offended by my question. It went something like this:
"Major, I understand the difficulties and hardships of being a POW and I admire the way you handled the situation. You actions as a POW were courageous and an example for all women (they actually were) and fully deserving of the medals and accolades you received. But as you state in your book, you went on the flight against orders. In fact, you said you had repeatedly gone on these flights and had repeatedly been ordered not to. It was your failure to obey orders which resulted in your capture as well as putting fellow Soldiers at risk unnecessarily trying to find and protect you. How do you justify your actions? Don't you think some disciplinary action is justified especially since a Soldier was wounded / died (again, I forget which) trying to protect you from the Iraqis after the shoot down?"
I never did get an answer. Instead, a female Captain told me to shut up and follow her. Ass chewing followed.