Sorry to hear we lost an aviator.
On the money issue, I was going over GAO reports looking at program costs, and like mmx1 said there are several ways to skin this cat, but the GAO usually takes into account overall program cost when arriving at figure for unit cost. There are people here that know WAY more than I do about procurement, but from what I gathered out of the reports it is generally accepted that the unit for an F-22 is in the $300 mil range.
Suggestion: If this discussion gets more into money maybe split the thread off. Something feels wrong about expressing regards for a passing aviator and also talking about money in the same thread.... both worthy AW topics, but maybe not good bedfellows.