I applied and got accepted into a USMC aviator contract and I ship out for my first 6 weeks increment on July 8th. However at the end of April I was arrested for a Class A Misdemeanor, stalking. The person that made the charge was a friend of mine, and she even wrote a reference letter for my application but I'm not sure if my recruiters ended up using it or not.
She and I were good friends until the end of the Spring semester, when I had stupidly tried to turn our friendship into a relationship, and this made her and her boyfriend terminate our friendship altogether. I was stupid to do that, but my actions did not indicate any sort of hostility at all, and in no way did I make her feel threatened. Her boyfriend is one of the controlling types and did not approve of her hanging out with me and she is, unfortunately, submissive in nature and undoubtedly acted on his behalf. I know since I'm just a faceless stranger on the internet that I could be percieved as a creep and delusional for just writing what I did, but I ask for you to believe otherwise. I do community service, and in high school earned JROTC national awards for being an upstanding citizen, and I'm a laid-back guy with a strong set of values and morals.
In any case, this is the only arrest I've ever had in my life. Going to jail for a day was an experience that I'll never forget, and it took that long for me to be able to contact a bondsman to bail me out. I have no other records with the police, other than a speeding ticket that I took a Driver Safety Course to eliminate.
My case is retired for six months, and as long as I exhibit good behavior (don't get in trouble with the law) and make no contact with her, the case will be dropped and was told it would be like "it never happened." And both of these conditions will be met. However I understand that government background checks are extensive, and this arrest will undoubtedly be seen.
I request any advice anyone may have to offer for this situation. Should I tell my recruiter? Wait for the inevitable background investigations? If I graduate and complete both sessions of OCS and keep this a secret, will I be in danger of serving prison time once my arrest has been discovered?
Being a military aviator has been a life-long dream of mine, and to have it being endangered after I got accepted into the program has definitely not been a good experience. Currently I'm a student pilot and I loved flying from the start.
Thank you for reading this, and have a good weekend.
She and I were good friends until the end of the Spring semester, when I had stupidly tried to turn our friendship into a relationship, and this made her and her boyfriend terminate our friendship altogether. I was stupid to do that, but my actions did not indicate any sort of hostility at all, and in no way did I make her feel threatened. Her boyfriend is one of the controlling types and did not approve of her hanging out with me and she is, unfortunately, submissive in nature and undoubtedly acted on his behalf. I know since I'm just a faceless stranger on the internet that I could be percieved as a creep and delusional for just writing what I did, but I ask for you to believe otherwise. I do community service, and in high school earned JROTC national awards for being an upstanding citizen, and I'm a laid-back guy with a strong set of values and morals.
In any case, this is the only arrest I've ever had in my life. Going to jail for a day was an experience that I'll never forget, and it took that long for me to be able to contact a bondsman to bail me out. I have no other records with the police, other than a speeding ticket that I took a Driver Safety Course to eliminate.
My case is retired for six months, and as long as I exhibit good behavior (don't get in trouble with the law) and make no contact with her, the case will be dropped and was told it would be like "it never happened." And both of these conditions will be met. However I understand that government background checks are extensive, and this arrest will undoubtedly be seen.
I request any advice anyone may have to offer for this situation. Should I tell my recruiter? Wait for the inevitable background investigations? If I graduate and complete both sessions of OCS and keep this a secret, will I be in danger of serving prison time once my arrest has been discovered?
Being a military aviator has been a life-long dream of mine, and to have it being endangered after I got accepted into the program has definitely not been a good experience. Currently I'm a student pilot and I loved flying from the start.
Thank you for reading this, and have a good weekend.