GAMarine...lectures about initiative and motivation aside, I think what might be most beneficial to you is learning when to stop digging a hole with your mouth (or keyboard, in this case). See those wings by teabag's name? Yeah, he's an officer. You're not. Most of us here have learned the hard way that nothing good comes of telling someone senior to you to fuck off. If there was a misunderstanding, you say, "Sorry for the misunderstanding," and exit the fight. Period. Quit trying to get in the last word and quit trying to make teabag understand that he hurt your feelings and you don't like being judged.