This may sound...well, stupid, but then again, this seems to be the thread for it. If, for example, I were assigned to NAS Oceana, would I actually need to have my primary residence near there? I ask because my understanding is that I would basically deploy for 6-8 months, and then I'd have a few months off before the next deployment. So I wonder if I could live in Boston (hypothetically) and then just fly into Virginia when it's time to deploy. So is that possible, or do they want you nearby between deployments?
Are you talking about doing this as a pilot assigned to a squadron? If so, there are no dumb questions (they say) but this one is close

What you are asking is a little bit like asking "could I be on the starting lineup for (insert NFL team) and just show up for the super bowl?"