Bert,
you are right, the senior dudes who cared enough often headed into the skipper's office to have a "come to Jesus" about the prospects of a stud being successful (or living for that matter). But you cannot deny that having another set of eyes (or more) can keep a weak player from morting. (saved me more than once!)
Your black and white comment is somewhat unrealistic.
1. You can't FNAEB SNA's.
2. Not everyone is capable of being trained to fight in the most demanding of arena's (dude, please don't turn this into a flipping platform arguement).
3. Fleet seat fills are all the COMMOs give a shit about. They won't boot ass clowns out.
It has been my experience that most TRACOM CO's were RAG instructors who think first shore tour IP's don't know their hole from an ass in the ground anyways. They trust their ego's and since they have been making coffee at the Pentagon and haven't flown in 4-5 years are totally out of touch with the naval aviation fraternity as a whole (with very, very few exceptions). Nads, Leadership? (sounds boat schooly to question ones abilities in that arena) DH's listened to the grumblings and soiled pant stories from the trenches, passed them on to the Head sheds with undiluted furvor, and the battle was lost from there up. When all reason failed, platform choice was the very, very, very last resort.
On a side note... One of our studs wasted in Key West after CQing was being shepperded back to the Q as Duval closed down... his reply: "F*** OFF, IM A BAD ASSED FIGHTER PILOT!"
BWAH!