yeah, there's a fine line
at TBS, it's like you're standing inspection before 200 Lieutenants all day, every day. it's like they just look for some little stupid thing to correct each other on, and it's annoying as shit, and kinda treading into "boy who cried wolf" territory.
and yeah, regardless of how he meant to come across, i wouldn't have said "Ensign, the button..." I would've said something (if we were just hanging around...not if, say, i passed him in the PX), but it would've been more like "Hey dude, your back pocket's unbuttoned."
I saw a female Ensign in the API building one day who looked like she got dressed by having people throw uniform items at her...I just caught her when she was away from everyone else and politely told her that she looked all fucked up, in so many words at least. She was about to go into a Marine Major's office, and was appreciative that I caught her when I did.
and there's no reason to act like a dicknozzle when correcting a young enlisted Marine or sailor, either. So he didn't salute you when you walked by? Ok, don't let it slide, but make it a learning point rather than an asschewing session.
I'm not saying that chewing someone's ass is never justified, but 99% of the time, you can convey your point in a very civil manner. If you can't, that's your own deficiency.
Carve the turkey, turn the ballgame on
Mix margaritas when the eggnog's gone
at TBS, it's like you're standing inspection before 200 Lieutenants all day, every day. it's like they just look for some little stupid thing to correct each other on, and it's annoying as shit, and kinda treading into "boy who cried wolf" territory.
and yeah, regardless of how he meant to come across, i wouldn't have said "Ensign, the button..." I would've said something (if we were just hanging around...not if, say, i passed him in the PX), but it would've been more like "Hey dude, your back pocket's unbuttoned."
I saw a female Ensign in the API building one day who looked like she got dressed by having people throw uniform items at her...I just caught her when she was away from everyone else and politely told her that she looked all fucked up, in so many words at least. She was about to go into a Marine Major's office, and was appreciative that I caught her when I did.
and there's no reason to act like a dicknozzle when correcting a young enlisted Marine or sailor, either. So he didn't salute you when you walked by? Ok, don't let it slide, but make it a learning point rather than an asschewing session.
I'm not saying that chewing someone's ass is never justified, but 99% of the time, you can convey your point in a very civil manner. If you can't, that's your own deficiency.
Hallelujiah, everybody say cheese
Merry Christmas from the family
Carve the turkey, turn the ballgame on
Mix margaritas when the eggnog's gone