Hmm, maybe you should have joined the Marines. As someone who has been on both sides (unlike you), this is not an issue in the fleet. If you want to frame this issue in terms of who's entitled to what, there's a big difference between Os and Es. I'm entitled to more pay. I'm also entitled to more responsibility. Conversely, most Es don't have to take their work home with them at the end of a 12 hour day and they enjoy a lot more leeway when they fuck something up. The list goes on and on. I'm certain that you'll figure this out if you ever get back to the fleet. In the meantime, check the attitude a the door. You have zero experience as an officer. Lecturing people who have been in this business for 20 plus years about "how it is" or "how it should be" in the fleet is a bit ridiculous.