I keep seeing that letter from Bob Norris that says Air Force pilots will be home for most important family events but I don't see many posts that can verify that, especially post-Afghanistan. Where are Air Force pilots being deployed nowadays? Do they get a TDY to a cushy overseas base like some posts make it seem?
Doesn’t matter the service, if you’re a pilot expect to be gone. You’ll miss a lot. It’s up to you to depend on if it’s worth it. I’m going on 17 consecutive years of sea duty and 22 deployments, and for me, it’s been worth it. It may not be for you. Even if you aren’t as crazy as me, you’ll still miss birthdays, Christmas’s, or special occasions regardless of what service you are in.
Deployment locations isn’t a true apples to apples comparison. Both services will give you some good liberty, but will also send you to some crappy places. Today, even without Afghanistan or Iraq, both services could send you to the desert, or send you somewhere with primo liberty opportunities. Obviously, the Navy means you’re most likely to deploy on a boat, so don’t be surprised when you do.
All that to say, don’t chose a service on potential liberty spots. Choose it for the mission.
I still prefer the Navy to the Air Force, but I wouldn’t change where I am for anything in the world. If I could do it all over again, I’d have sold my soul to fly the A-10.
My point, choose what mission you are likely to be interested in and start researching the services from there. I guarantee you’ll enjoy the liberty you end up getting regardless of what service you end up in.