A former Squadron CO's perspective:What is there to do as SWO?
1. As the SWO, you are probably the "senior LT", and (take a deep breath here...) you ARE the senior person who "stands watches"...live with it. (OMG...you would have thought the sky had fallen...previous "policy" was that the SWO was "off the watch bill".) How else would you know what's going on?
2. Your job IS to set the standard and to make sure the Watchbill is "fair and balanced". You can figure out the "points scale" for weekends, holidays, yadda yadda yadda, however you want...whatever you can sell to the Ready Room is fine by me. Got other issues? Ask the XO (first) or the Chaplain (always an option).
3. A disciplined "Snivel Log" is your friend, but don't let your JO bubbas "work you". Married guys don't get extra credit for the number of dependents they can claim on their taxes. Their job is to work "swaps" to their best advantage. Don't make their job YOUR job. Yes, it IS your job to track and be a part of the "approval process" for "swaps". It all should work out in the end.
4. Be flexible...there will always be operationally-required "hip-shot" deltas based on currency (night CQ comes to mind....but there are probably others), or special circumstances unbeknownst to you, my Padawan. Figure out how to normalize it the next couple of months.
5. Please remember that my " Squadron Duty Officer" is the FACE and the VOICE of this command to outsiders...and I probably have more than a passing interest in those in MY chain of command, but everyone who dials the number or pushes the button is an Outsider to start. Telephone, Squawk Box, in-person strolling into the Ready Room, [whatever exists today...on-line chat rooms or whatever...], how the SDOs (and you) conduct themselves and represent THIS command says a lot about how I am doing MY job. Comport yourself as an officer and gentleman until you know that the rules of the situation will allow for your rapier-like wit ["Ready Seven...Joe's Meat Market...What's Your Beef?" is appropriate in only very limited circumstances...].
6. Live with the fact that the XO and I have probably "excused" Warrant Officers and LDOs from the SDO bill. Any one of them have already stood more "watches" in their lifetimes than you will in your Navy/Marine career. And they're busy doing other stuff on this command's behalf.
7. Once your proposed Watchbill is approved and published...it's now a command Order. Treat it as such.
SWO isn't a bad gig...says you've earned some bones and are trusted to run a significant portion of the operation. If you figure out how to do this well (hell,...it isn't rocket science), it will be "one less thing" for you to have to worry about on that great and glorious day when the gods of Naval Aviation reach down and anoint YOU as a selected Commanding Officer.
I hope y'all are sorta working for that every day anyway...