If you want to screw your people, then just tell them you're screwing them. Don't try to hide the pile of shit in some chocolate and tell me it's a cake.
I hope that's not exactly how you start out your talks with your folks. If so, we really need to work on our people skills.
Three paths avail:
1. Be part of the problem…tell everyone who works for you how much your/their life sucks and how it will probably suck worse. You'll be their hero. 360 Degree assessments are important.
2. Be part of the solution…articulate reality as best you know it and promise to keep your folks informed as well as you are kept informed. You will be less popular…you may be viewed as "part of the machine". 360 degree assessments may suffer…in one hemisphere.
3. Be a Leader…"Okay, we've been served a shit sandwich for the next [X] months. Skipper doesn't control that, and, as you know, he's as frustrated as any of us…but WE can control what we do with it. What can we do in that time to prep and be ready for life after this? Let's go around the room…Chief?"
Now, before any of you wade in and say "Thanks, Captain Obvious, for telling us how to do our jobs…", let me just say that I can only comment on what actually gets posted here.
Apropos of nothing whatsoever, we had a very nice "gathering of the Clan" at last night's San Diego Tailhook Ready Room" gathering…former CNAFs on down to Senior Enlisted…and some of us huddled around a cool adult beverage and AGREED…we'd n
ever experienced anything like you guys and gals are going through before…even during the post-Vietnam drawdowns nor during the budgetary limitations of "The Carter Years". SO…yeah…it's new. Mostly the "new" seems to do with "home based"…but the "deployed stuff" (or preps for same) is
nothing new.
Don't envy your position. But this forum had led me to believe we've picked, over the last decade or so, "the best of the best". All we can ask is that you prove us right...