#2 - I was (un)lucky to stand duty once a month in my single seat squadron (we were land based the time I was there though, maybe the difference between little duty vs a lot of duty)
Go to an embarked squadron, very different situation. LSOs don't stand duty, DHs don't stand duty (obviously), Training O's don't stand duty... not a lot of JOs left to do it... our single seat brethren stand duty MUCH more often than we ever do. Obviously land-based is a lot different story.
#4 - did you guys do bombing derby's? I'd be interested in seeing the stats from different deployments.
Yep. Not sure of the stats on the derbies, but who cares? What matters is how you perform in the exercises, with bandits, EW range, etc. Bombing derbies are academic patterns (at least what I've seen, maybe you guys have done something different?)
#5 - na, Marine single seat Hornets (and soon Harriers, if not already) are doing FAC (A)
True FAC(A), high, medium, and low threat? I've heard some mixed opinions on this topic.
#6 - true, or, when your head is in the game and his isn't, he becomes the SA sponge as you fight over who has control of the FLIR or radar.
And that's where crew coordination and taking charge in the cockpit come into play.
maybe that guy shoulda went two seaters ...
If you're implying that weak pilots go two-seat and strong pilots go single-seat, that's patently false.
Then, if you come back for a second tour, go two seaters if you don't want to work as hard as your first tour.
Work as hard? Maybe in some aspects, but I challenge you that developing solid crew coordination is a very difficult task. It doesn't just happen, and learning who does what, when, where, etc is a challenge. That's where 1 + 1 = 2 or 1 + 1 < 1 comes from.
To each his own though... I'm not sure if it changed, but I was trained up in the RAG as a single-seat guy and didn't go to two-seat until CQ. It was my choice and I'm glad I got it. I know others that are glad they went single-seat. What really matters is, do you enjoy it.
In the end, who gives a sh!t, we're all tailhookers and pointy-nose