OK I'm back, just been reading and rereading this entire thread.
I find it interesting, that this group of mostly veterans, many with solid real experience and understanding of leadership and commitment, are all over the board with "facts" and "opinions."
Maybe I had a mental "WTF" earlier than others, but in my opinion, we were rapidly devolving from "fact based opinion" to "emotion based opinion." And that is where I shut down, chocked and chained to the deck, and went to the wardroom for some really bad coffee.
After a few good nights sleep, and I'm ready to venture into the wild blue, armed with my well worn NATOPs and copy of the Constitution.
"Peace through Naval Air and Sea Power!"