That sounds exhausting - hmmm in my day I just called my detailer 2-3 months out to end of tour and said "Hey I want to go to the HT's - what do you think" and I had orders the next day to HT-18.
It's the same basic process, it's just that you submit what you want and you get ranked and "selected" (for lack of a better word). If you think you weren't vetted when you were a JO, you're fooling yourself. It just wasn't as formal a process.
I was a squarely middle of the pack player in my first squadron. I shunned ground jobs that took real effort, or simply found more willing peers who would do the work. I flew flew flew and stayed in top 5 for flight time - and that was the sole basis of my selection to go to HT's. Ahhh this high stakes political competitiveness that you guys describe - begging for the praise and annointment of your skipper and XO seems less fun.
You keep saying this about your JO tour and I'm baffled that JOPA let it continue. If guys didn't pull their weight in whatever ground job at my first squadron, it was noticed by "senior" JOPA. Typically the "top 5" fliers were also the guys that had the notable ground jobs, be it in Ops or Mx, because we had all the quals AND we would get the ground job done (of note, the same occurred during my DH tour). Obviously the Ops guys would have a little more flight time because they could only eat their boogers upstairs in Ops for so long before putting themselves on the flight schedule.
I wonder if some of the difference wasn't because we didn't have dedicated DET MOs.