Here's the deal, and why it's a big one. I don't give a flying eff that you went to counseling. None of us do. But the fact is, you didn't put something on a form that requires you to swear it is complete to the best of your knowledge: that's a lie, no matter which way you look at it. All of us with what you want (wings) have filled out the same form, and not many of us had a problem following its directions. Nobody wants to hang around someone they can't trust, and we definitely don't want people who aren't trustworthy making it into a cockpit.
You're probably a pretty decent guy, but don't get mad when you come on here asking for advice...and then get bent when we don't give it to you pretty please with a spoonful of sugar. We will continue to judge you...if this pushes your buttons so bad, what's OCS or the TRACOM going to do to you?
Here's a hint about flight school: you are constantly being evaluated and judged...in and out of the aircraft. There are guys here who I love hanging out with, but have flown with and never want to fly with again. It's not personal, but I made a judgment and reserve the right to stick by it. I'll probably have to fly with them again, but the fact that they didn't know their shit and scared me in the plane doesn't just go away in my brain because they said sorry and they had a bad day...when I know it wasn't just a bad day.
You've gotten good advice here, and a lesson in thickness of skin plus a helping of integrity to boot. Let the cards fall where they will, good luck with OCS if/when you get there.