Yeah, this shit is stupid, and if I was still active it would piss me off, especially the breathalyzer for duty section crap. But these initiatives should not be anyone's deciding factor in getting out or staying in. When policies go too far one way or the other, they eventually get directed back towards the center; it's just a matter of time. The comment above about Merril McPeak is a case in point. If you're not familiar with the Air Force dress uniform debacle that happened on his watch, do a quich search on the subject. The thing is, you guys (and gals) wearing wings of gold have it pretty good compared to most people. Unless you want to retire or work for yourself, you're going to find the same kind of chicken shit policies in any civilian work place, and it's likely that the people that you're working for and with as a civilian won't be as smart, honest or motivated as the shipmates that you have now.
Long deployments that separate you from your family for 6+ months are a valid reason for getting out; those aren't going to go away anytime soon. Getting out because you disagree with a SECNAV's policy initiatives is short sighted.