Squeeze, I agree with your sentiment, however, you're talking about a totally different mission than a platform that is designed for a dual (or more) crew. Hats off to those who ride single, I couldn't do it, so don't feel any disrespect coming at you from my way. Viper-o just hacked me off because he echoes the b&@^!ing of so many guys who didn't make the grade. My point is that you knew going in that 42.5 was the standard since they published that in Decemeber 2004. If you didn't make the grade then you didn't make the grade. Don't pull some sob $H!T about how the Navy screwed you and how you should have stuck to the Air Force.
The other argument guys make is how they know someone from FY-whatever who had a lower score (like a 38 or whatever) who is now going jets. The idea there is that somehow they got screwed and that the dude with the 38 is some idiot who doesn't deserve the jet slot. Thing is, there was no NSS req of 42.5 when that cat went through so you don't know if he couls have made the 42.5. Also, the way the NSS is derived has altered somewhat under the new rules, so a 38 from two years ago is not neccesarily equivalent to a 38 this week.
As for FY-05 guys having lower NSS's, oh well. Welcome to the military. Needs of the Navy and all that. Things change and a man (or woman) is measured by how he (or she) responds to it.
As for switching to Pilot after doing an NFO gig. You would have to get winged, at the least - prob have a tour as well before you could come back. If you are young enough it may work. Don't know for sure if the Navy has some restriction about reentering an MOS you were processed out of once. I think I heard from a buddy in your situation that you could NOT do it, but please don't take my word for it. Ask LT hammer or Mr. Nichols. As for getting out, I can tell you that my brother is an AF Pilot and I talked to him a few minutes ago and he said it would be possible but tough. It's harder to get a flight slot from the AF than anywhere else, period. Your record might help, but who knows. As for the Marines, the rumor mill is that they always need pilots so that may be a possibility if you're willing to do the 6 months of TBS.
To sum up: 1) Single-seat guys can do more $h!t simultaneously than me (and as such probably have a happier wife than I)
2) Multi-crew aircraft require all members to respect what each brings to the table (or to at least to know where the hot towels are kept),
3) Starting a thread that is presumably about getting advice for a huge life decision and then $h!tting on the folkes you're asking is just freaking stupid,
4) Ask LT. Hammer or Mr. Nichols for advice on switching later on since they have their fingers closest to the pulse.