Just some perspective...
I did OHARP for 3 weeks. In that time, there were about a dozen people who contacted the office. Of those people, none had interest in an URL job. In fact, the most popular inquiry was about PAO, followed by intel and the occasional inquiry about something random that may not even exist.
A good portion of those people saw the Navy's OCS video and went "wow, that looks hard" and were never seen again.
So if you just take that as a datapoint for what your average OR deals with daily, you shouldn't be surprised if they don't spend a whole lot of energy talking to you until the numbers show you're competitive and you want to apply for SWO/aviation/submarines and stick around past a couple weeks.