I definitely don't have room to write my own ticket after resigning. I will have to put PERS-43 on the top of my Christmas list and probably beg and plead for a squadron CO (and XO since he will end up with me) to take a chance on me. I'm hoping the fact that I am a Weapons School grad with #1 Fitreps will help sway the jury. I just know that I have a lot to offer the community both tactically and for retention. I plan on making it my unofficial mission to have honest dialogue with JOs planning on getting out.
It is hard to make an informed decision to leave the Navy when you only know one side of the puzzle. I would recommend that any JO buy some of their O-4s a beer and have a frank conversation. If you are getting out for money, I would recaculate the ACCP and other items. If it is to be around better quality people, you're making a mistake. Just make sure you know the real reason and try to think ten or twenty years down the road.
As for my case, I tried to do the best I could in the Navy. I also loved developing FNGs when they came to the squadron. I had a sharp tongue but was very supportive (in my own way). I earned my MBA and transitioned to CIVFLEET. They say that past performance is an indication of future performance and that is true in civilian life. Honestly, corporate America is pretty easy. However, I think it is very hard if you were a top 20% flyer to turn off that part of your brain. I have done fairly well in civilian life. It is not nearly as satisfying as leading sailors (ADs are a unique group that only an Aircraft Divo could love) or being the SEAD lead on a mission.
I'm hoping I can find a sympathetic ear in BUPERS land. I'm not coming back because of failure on the outside. In fact it just the opposite. I'm willing to take a $40,000 cut in pay to be a part of something great. I'll take 100 bitching sailors over one whining civilian any day of the week. At least I know the sailors will practically kill themselves to get the bird airborne.
I know it is a long post but I think it helps to see that the motivation is genuine. And besides, nobody out here has ever seen the epic movie Super Troopers....how uncivilized!