I understand your point, and on the whole, I agree w/ the idea, but...
My point was just that there's no such thing as an absolute Fo-can-or-can't-do skill set. You could do whatever the community decides to train him/her to do and make legal per NATOPS and 3710.
Sure, the NFO can learn to do these things, and you mention a training curriculum, but now you're training the NFO to do the button pushing (what the pilot already trains for) AND how to land on the boat, which the pilot already trains for. So basically, you're training him to be the pilot. How is that saving time/resources? I have no doubt the NFO can physically do it, but is it really better that it's an NFO or a pilot.
As for the other countries using a NFO, true, but the other countries don't have anywhere near the availability and on station time that the U.S. does in theatre, so having another body w/ the skill onboard after day 32 of 6 hour bags at 2 am is a good thing.
...Somehow every other tailhook community manages to make do with one pilot and a FO, and I find it hard to believe that helos (or Hawkeyes, for that matter) are really so different. It's a matter of training, quals, mixing your crew's experience levels, and community attitude, not the number of anchors on your wings.
I'm just sayin'.
You're absolutely right, but again, it's a different approach/skillset. An E-2 or COD doesn't move sideways when doing picks, so it doesn't matter which side the pilots is on because the ship is always in the center. As for the recovery approach, it is different. I'm NOT saying the carrier approach is easier, but the small boy approach has it's own peculiararities.
Certainly a moment to grab your attention is when you are approaching your small-boy deck at night and the guy up front with his hands on the sticks says "you have the controls, I have vertigo". So now the guy with the controls is on the wrong side of the cockpit.
Not so much of an issue now since most ships and helos shoot the recovery approach from the center of the stern and not an offset approach like in olden tymes.