I'm not 100% sure, but for Restricted Line jobs outside of Aviation, you can always get waivers. I don't understand why it would be paramount for someone like SWO or a Nuclear Officer needing to be 20/20. Don't throw in the towel if you want a commission in the military, but if Aviation is the ONLY path you will accept, it seems like you are in bad luck on this one. The hardest part of my job is when I get an Aviation Candidate in my office who has spent year working on a degree and just finished and gets the bad news from our department that Aviation isn't even a possibility.
The aviation community is super strict when it comes to vision. I cant even be a pilot and I'm 20/15. I have strabismus in one eye which causes my eye to turn yet I have perfect Depth Perception. I don't want you to give up though. I want a commission in my Navy so bad I will never stop until I have it. It's one of the most respectful and best jobs in the world in my opinion. There are other good jobs in the military besides flying. Good luck.