The most important part of "officership" is being proficient at employing your aircraft in a lethal manner.
It seems more and more like the word "flying" is an F word and "officership" a word thrown around by people who think ground jobs and non-flying related duties are more important than actually being competent in your platform.
I don't disagree with you, but when I compare my first tour of just over 700 hours to my AF friends in similar platforms who got over 1200, it's clear to me that the emphasis was on flying them more. Also, in exercises, like Red Flag, my counterparts for planning were Majors, not Captains, so I'm calling an ace an ace here and suggesting that the Air Force, as far as JO's go - seems to care about flying and the Navy cares a little more about rounding out the officership qualities; or maybe it's just that we fly less. Do not confuse me by thinking I am suggesting the Air Force is better - I just believe they are a professional organization, but they do have their own set of problems too.