Graybeard,
Welcome to the forum and boy did you step in it with your first post. I only made it through your first paragraph before the F-Bombs were flying in my office :icon_rage, and that was a few days ago.
That is your viewpoint from your experience and I for one have a VERY different viewpoint which I am compelled to offer. During your era, I can not imagine that naval leadership (O-6 and above) of the non-fighter communities would have tolerated "that" for one nanosecond. Your first paragraph did a disservice to the rest of your post.
When I went through VT10 and VT86 in 1984, it was "#1 [usually] gets their choice and the rest is quality spread". It's been a couple of years since I spoke to a TraWing Commodore, but nothing had changed in 2006. Today the students still fill out their dream sheets and hope that they earned the privledge to wear their wings in the aircraft of their choice.
No matter the outcome, the freshly minted wear their wings with great pride and in their own minds their #1. I saw it everyday when I was a recent base CO of a major training destination. Good on 'em.
Given that there are over 300 million people in our country and what it takes to clear all of the gate keeping to earn one's wings, including filtering BS forum posts, messdeck rumors and stinkin' thinkin' by a few, they are all number #1 in my book, and the best this country has to offer, no matter their rank in their winging class (NA or NFO).
And for all of you junior birdmen, when you show up at your RAG class, your ranking, #1 or last, means absolutely zip, nada, nothing!
'Nuff said by this NFO...for now!