For your awareness, it’s a DIY USNR. If you’re exhausted now - on your first DIRCOM application - you will no doubt be exhausted when (insert NRC admin snafu) happens and you’re bending over backwards to rectify it before next DWE.
Today in the middle of my civilian work week I shaved, put on my NWUs, drove 30 min to renew my CAC at the DEERS office, just so I can get into my FlankSpeed email in case Skipper/XO/etc send me something I have to turn around quickly. I have several other Navy things I’m juggling too, averaging 8-12 hours weekly between DWEs, that I won’t bore you with the details, but as an officer it’s on you to self-manage. A day before I was due to fly out, I have had to tell my family and employer that the month-long training course I put on their calendars may or may not happen because I was still waiting on orders and DTS.
TL;DR: The Navy Reserve will keep you exhausted in a number of very inventive ways until you separate or retire. Prepare for a long haul.
P.S. It’s ok to be a little salty, but don’t publicly blame and shame the DCO recruiters who are equally task-saturated and under the gun to help many more applicants than just you.