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1Nov2021 SNA/SNFO Board

GoldLeaf

GoldLeaf

Well-Known Member
Adam80 said:
Support your decision but I think you took my words out of context. It better terms, I don’t think someone not supporting your dreams is a good reason to go scorched earth. We aren’t victims of misunderstanding. We made this choice and so we bear the onus and responsibility of leading that decision to the end and bearing the consequences. Also understanding that we have no right to force anyone along this journey , as we aren’t the only ones with hopes and dreams.

Edit: if you choose this path, you have every god given right to do so. But don’t be surprised if you have to walk it alone
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No I fully understand that, I knew I couldn't live with myself if I didn't make it happen. I understand it isn't something everyone can handle. Therefore, I made that decision to pursue it on my own. I understand what you meant. I take ownership of my decisions and choices, there is never someone else to blame without looking at myself and owning my part and the consequences of my choices.
 
flatspinturkeyb

flatspinturkeyb

69 9/9/9 GPA: b4d
Adam80 said:
If your significant other gives you an ultimatum in response to your desire to commission, it’s kinda weak to say they won’t support your dreams so off with their head. Go look thru the threads where men and women who have been down this path are discussing the lifestyle. They will be the first to say how commissioning basically nuked their SO’s career. We get to fly the jets. They get to stay home in Lemoore doing who knows what.

just like we have every right to desire a commission, they have every right to not want to be a part of what will be an incredible difficult life. That’s a perfectly good reason to go your separate ways.
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Side note: how can a pointy-nose aspiring SNA-candidate learn more about life in Lemoore of Virginia Beach? If a pilot doesn't drag an existing SO there is it pretty difficult to convince someone to become their SO due to these locations? Asking for a friend.
 
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