Same here.I didn't go as far as you did but I did call and visit two separate AF Offices in my town and both sounded like I'd be a waste of time to work with since Pilot slots were competitive. They were professional about it though but they broke it down and said most of their Pilots come from the academy and that applying as a civilian especially without a STEM degree would be nearly impossible.
The guy I talked to was chill and respectable. He explained how I could if I really wanted to, but that the chances were extremely slim. He suggested other branches.
Now the AF 1-800 number, they blow. They refused to let me talk to anyone because I was a percent BF over their scale. Rude and condescending. The AF is extremely picky on who they let in, but are the first to whine during wartime because they don’t have many people to begin with. Smh