So, to make sure I understand your viewpoints:
-Women are discriminated against in the Navy because of sexism, but you know and agree with the fact that they're favored for promotion/good billets (ie, that men are discriminated against).
-You grew up poor, and you think you had to out work me to get to where you are, despite me growing up equally poor, in bad schools, etc., despite the fact that you know there's affirmative action, minority-only scholarship programs, etc that make it easier for poor minority kids to get into and pay for college than poor white kids
-You complain that some LT, who knows there's affirmative action, said you were a diversity hire (and you have every right to be mad at that bullshit), but you think it's great that the Navy ACTUALLY has systemically racist policies against white people
I never said there's a war on white males in the Navy. But there is accepted policy that discriminates against us.
And yes, affirmative action is currently the law of the land. The Supreme Court also upheld segregation, until they didn't. That didn't make it right the first time. Racism is racism. If you don't want policies to discriminate against you, then how in the world can you advocate policies that discriminate against others? Poor white kids who work hard to pull themselves out of poverty deserve the same chance to do so as anyone else. It's not their fault that other white jackasses were racist previously, or even currently. Do you really think affirmative action stops a bunch of rich kids from going to good schools?