Perhaps it isn’t too much for the SecDef to tell the POTUS, “ Hey sir, I’m going to hospital for four days so have someone else watch the shop.”Is it too much that the SECDEF asks POTUS "Hey Sir, I'm going to Ukraine to talk about the future of NATO, what are my left and right limits on our discussion points re: the biggest NATO issue in the last several decades?"
Perhaps the answer is yes, and I'm just overreacting.
Perhaps the answer is indeed yes and you are, in fact, overreaching because you are driven by party politics, not logic.