Meh. Gays are gonna be in the military regardless of what the policy is, imo. As long as they're not creepy / abusive I don't really care.
+1
Of course, I'm sure I've shared plenty of facilities with gays before without knowing it. I really don't care - but the systemic double standard inherent in government civilian officials dictating to the military really bugs me. Don't even get me started on the removal of porn from exchanges.
+1
I'm pretty sure we all have...maybe even on the boat!
+1
...and I'm spent.
To me, the bottom line is that its a private matter. Whether we like it or not, its seems an impossibly remote chance that we haven't shared a shower, locker room etc...with a gay man (or woman) already...and I'm none the worse for wear. Do I love the thought? Of course not.
On the other hand...if you make it a public matter, and act like a fag...you'll get treated like one. Don't paint a target on your back (ass) and people won't shoot it.
As for anecdotal evidence of "gay rape and violence"...its no different than straight "rape or violence". It's f%^&ing abbhorent and they ought to have their $%^& cut off. Period...but not because they are gay.