This threads gone off the rails a bit, but if the OP is still deciding I just thought of something to consider: interest in the varying mission sets.
I don’t know what other unclass roles the E-2 fills other than AEW and as an Air Controller, but as a P-8 guy the community is currently doing and trains for: Counter narcotics, coastal and open water surveillance (ISR), merchant search and rescue, maritime strike and targeting, nuclear and diesel ASW, anti ship missile engagements (we actually carry weapons!), etc.
Not a you vs me thing, but consider the missions sets in addition to quality of life. And ultimately, take your selection in stride and be the best upgraded you can. Nobody cares what you “should’ve gotten” in the fleet.