Whether you agree with it or not, in Big Navy's mind JOs are always striking for Command until proven otherwise. We all know that the party line is that command is the ultimate goal. So, with that Big Navy's thought process of every JO being a striker for FO/GO and that they don't want FO/GOs or O-5 level COs with a DUI on their record, then it makes perfect sense to cull them from the herd. Is this what Pags actually believes should happen? No, but it's the world that I live in.Let's flip/flop the argument and see that you're proving MB's point. You're arguing that getting fired from a civilian job is the same as not making Capt/Admiral.....your story.....So instead of a military full of warfighters who can learn from their mistakes, you end up with a group of guys who don't rock the boat, don't think outside the box, and are unwilling to take risk if the rules tell them not to.
It's fantastic that your CO stuck his neck out for you and it's good that you learned from your mistakes and didn't fuck him for backing you. For every guy like you there's another guy who thinks he just proved that the rules don't apply to him and he can do whatever he wants. Like I said in my post above, taking discretion on the matter away from COs ensures a uniform policy. You'd be singing a different tune if your CO had been a teetotaler who had made it his personal mission to deglamorize alcohol.
As far as I can tell, there are three jobs left in this world where you can party, booze, wreck hotels, and run your mouth in public with no ramifications:
1. rock/movie star
2. pro athlete
3. politician
Jobs where you'll get fired for DUI:
-law enforcement
-teacher
-any job that might require you to operate a vehicle; bus driver, trashman, cabbie, etc
-since it's considered a misdemeanor and is required to be reported on a job application, the presence of a misdemeanor on your record could make you less competitive. Basically, it's used as a screening tool by employers. Also, failure to report a misdemeanor and then have it come up in a background check is also bad.
In the civilian world, you might not get fired as a lawyer/doctor/businessman for a DUI, but your chances of ever getting past middle management just got a whole lot slimmer. For better or worse, the civilian world doesn't play by our "up or out" rules. Unfortunately, like I said above, as far as Big Navy is concerned, we're all striking for Admiral.
Will DUIs get you fired in all civilian jobs? No. But we also don't work in the civilian world.