Perhaps I didn't explain the situation enough. This is his first time applying and we were not exactly prepared. We didn't know that he would have to submit the acceptance letters and additional documentation by a certain deadline. Yes, he has been deployed twice this year, so I myself have put a considerable amount of time into helping him with his application. But he's 27, too old for most schools to accept him as a freshman, and has only 6 college credits, too few for most schools to accept him as a transfer student. Because of that his options will be severely limited to which schools he can apply for, including his top choice which was NC State. I would just hate for him to get accepted into the program only to be kicked out because 1) we didn't get the documentation submitted in time or 2) because he couldn't get accepted into a school. We have talked about it and both realize that those are two very real possibilities so we're just chalking this year up as a learning experience and hoping to be better prepared for next year.
It's disheartening to know that my husband and others are up against yours, when your not even fully committed to this! This obviously meant a lot to your husband if he went through all the hoop jumping to get his package in on time.
I get it, the longer they hold the results, the more stress of getting everything done before NSI. I'm sure he has lost some hope. That's where we, the wives or significant others, come in and help keep the spirits up. Remember, this is a complete evaluation of him as a person and soldier. Rejection is not a great feeling, then to look over and know your wife was hoping you didn't get in? That sure would make me feel worse!
It's one thing to feel a certain way, but when you express that feeling on an open forum, you opened yourself up to judgement.
It was a big slap in the face to those of us who want this more than anything! To wives who spent all night trying to keep our husbands pre-occupied, wink wink, to keep them off this forum, even for just 5 minutes.
There are only so many places without wifi, so it looks like another weekend at the beach!